Today, I was a bad parent.
My kids ate greasy gas station pizza for lunch.
They ran around like wild animals at the store.
I bought them sugar filled drinks at the checkout and candy at the next store.
Today, I was a bad parent.
I slept in longer than my kids.
I let them skip baths for the third (or is it fourth?) day in a row.
Nobody brushed their teeth today.
Today, I was a bad parent.
I let my kids wear the same clothes as yesterday.
They spent all day in front of the TV.
I sleepervised from the couch during Spongebob.
Today, I was a bad parent.
I got too mad.
I yelled too much.
I hurt my child, because I got overwhelmed.
Today, I wasn't perfect, and tomorrow I won't be either.
Today, I apologized to my child and forgave myself, as well.
Today, I did the best I could and tomorrow I will, too!
There's noting perfect about being a parent. As long as everyone tries their best, and admits to their flaws, the kids will be fine.
ReplyDeleteSo true! Unfortunately, many parents are unwilling to admit their mistakes, especially to their children. I think it's important for them to know we are imperfect.
DeleteThat's a nice bit of poetry. No one is perfect, certainly no one I've ever met. Every (good) parent has a time when they feel that they are bad parents.
ReplyDeleteThe beauty is that, like our children, we get to grow, learn, and change with each new day.
Thanks for the great read!
Thanks. I feel lik all parents have this inner monologue at some point.
DeleteI believe our children sense our best intentions and if you're trying your best they know that. We're so hard on ourselves as mothers. I'm sure you're doing awesome mama!
ReplyDeleteI certainly hope so!
DeleteYep, the toughest job there is right?:) Very nice writing and I think we can all relate!
ReplyDeleteToughest, yet very rewarding!
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